Happy single. Did you know that was a possibility? Well it is. It’s all in your perspective. So often happiness seems to elude single people. Perhaps because society has a way of making you feel a certain way. Or society has you believing the falsehood that you have to be partnered up to be happy.
It seems that if you don’t have a significant other there’s something wrong with you.
But here’s the deal no one can or should make you feel anything. It’s totally up to you to be confident, self-sufficient and feel worthy with or without a significant other.
Having a significant other does not solidify happiness. Quite the contrary.
I know a lot of coupled up people who are not happy and many times it’s because of the other person. They are with the wrong person. They are settling. They are dependent or co-dependent when the person is actually not a good match and more drama than it is love and joy.
So here’s the deal – if you start to take a different perspective on being single you might find that it’s truly a joyful and meaningful way to be.
You get to love you more than anything. You get to work on you. You get to discover who you truly are without someone else defining who you are.
Something to think about deeply.
